From the inner – the outer

“Be the champion in your mind first before you can be the champion in real life.” – Mike Tyson

From the inner – the outer.  In that order, always.

The world gives you what you deserve.

You have to be the person that gets the results before you get the results.

Are you being the person who gets the results you are getting now – or the person who gets the results you want to get?

This is about YOU

The better you get, the better “IT” is. 

Your life getting better is not about anything but you getting better.

It’s not about the economy, the company, your friends, or outside events.

It’s not about your boss, the weather, interest rates, the election or prices.

It’s about you.

Once you accept that, you are in control.

Make NEW Mistakes

People who make the same mistakes over and over again are not learning.  They are not willing to see that they are the cause and make adjustments.

The world will keep throwing the same problems/issues/crises at you until you learn to be better.

Once you learn and stop making mistakes though, you have to elevate your game and try new things – and make NEW mistakes.  Learn from them and get better.  Then make NEWER mistakes.

This is how we grow.

Are you making the same mistakes, or new ones?

Your body is talking. Are you listening?

You eat a big meal and you feel stuffed and tired – what does that tell you (me)?

You eat sugar and feel better for a few minutes and then you crash – what does that tell you?

You do something and it hurts – what does that tell you?

Your body has gotten bigger – what does that tell you?

Your body is tired – what does that tell you?

You eat ____ and you feel  _____.  You eat ____ and you feel ____ .

If you pay attention closely enough, you will hear your body saying all kinds of things to you about what is good for it and what is not.

Are you listening to that thing you live in?

Can I get a witness?

“Witness” what is happening in your life.

Rise above yourself and look down and see what is going on.

Where are you?

Who is around you?

Who are you being?

What are your habits?

How do you respond to events and the actions of others?

How are you thinking and what are you doing?

AND…are you ok with all of that?

Reasoning Thought

It has been said so many ways – before action comes thought.

“Everything around us that supports our standard of living and survival is a result of man’s capacity for reasoning thought and subsequent action.” – Ayn Rand

If someone is having trouble, it’s a thinking problem.

Develop your ability to think – clearly, productively, ambitiously, courageously, and without over influence by egoic and social biases.

If you can think well, the actions that produce favorable results will surely follow.

Faith

Many people won’t take a step if they can’t see the whole staircase.  

But the reality is that great destinations don’t lie at the top of short staircases where you can see the whole journey before you start.

You can see the next step – take it.

Event + Response = Outcome

Events happen – to everybody. 

Good events, bad events.

God knows I have had “events” in my life.  Really great ones.  Really bad ones.

When I watched my dream house with 50-foot flames reaching up to the sky – yea that was a good one. 

It’s the response to events that makes the difference in people.

Good event – what is your response?  Do you make the most of it?

Bad event – what is your response? Do you make the best of it?

And what of the bad events do you carry with you far into the future and how does that shape your thinking and contribute to your suffering?

Response = Outcome.

The event may not be a choice.  Response always is.

See how that works?

We are not all the same.

I am a people watcher.  I find it fascinating.

I was on a flight recently (coming back from my Vegas to Reno race)  and a very large man sits next to me.  He turns on football on his phone with headphones then falls asleep.  Then wakes up to have two glasses of wine and eat snacks.  Then plays Candy Crush for a while.  Then more wine.  Then plays solitaire blackjack for a while.  Then more Candy Crush.  Then sleep again.

Meanwhile, I am plugging away with my reading and my journal.  I am not saying I am superior.  That’s not what this post is about. Just making this observation.

People are not equal.  They do not give the same effort or create the same outcomes.  

Any expectation or effort that people should be equal is bucking reality in a big way.  

Some people want to be healthy, want to win, and want to be productive and valuable and are willing to do the work with the self-discipline that it takes.  Some are not.  It’s cause and effect.

 Which are you?

Do your habits support your dreams?

Your habits, repeated over and over, will take you somewhere.  The question is where?

Will your habits take you where you want to go?  

If your habits are not in alignment with your dreams, you can either lower your dreams, or elevate your habits.

Which is it for you?