Grandma School

This is from my Aunt Donna who lives in Jacksonville Florida.  I thought you’d like it.

WORDS MATTER 

            My grandson Dallas wanted to bring some friends with him when he visited me, so I said, “Sure, bring them along.” There were three of them! Oh my, where would they all sleep?

We managed with double beds and couches, and they settled in for the weekend. Two of them were Black,  one was Hispanic; my grandson is white. It pleased me that my grandson had friends of diversity, and we set out to have a great time together. We went ice skating- totally new to Dallas’s friends. They played basketball together. We went to the Dreamette for their famous ice cream. We did Thrift Store shopping, which they really liked.

            Now I have a program I like to do with kids- it’s called Grandma School. In it I teach about budgets, writing thank you notes, setting a table, cooking basics, sewing on a button- you get the idea. Many of these things are not taught in school and busy parents don’t always have the time or energy.  So- I thought, why don’t we have a few sessions of Grandma School?

I chose to do Thank You notes, and one I just developed. It’s called “Words Matter”. Joe Namath, the football player grew up thinking his name was “Shut Up”until he was thirteen years old.

“You are fat”; “You are Ugly”; “You are stupid”; “You won’t amount to anything”; “No One likes you”, and so on. All had experience these words or something similar spoken by classmates, friends, or family, or they had heard them spoken to others.

What we hear every day becomes our reality. If you are told every day that you will never amount to anything, guess what? You may never try.

And so, I had each boy write down five positive things they will place by their bathroom mirror and say to themselves every morning. We then passed a mirror around and each boy read what he had written.

That was pretty much the end of the exercise, until my Grandson said, “Let’s go around the table and say positive things about each person. He began, and since I was sitting next to him, started with me. Oh my! My heart was full. As each boy spoke, the emotion was over the moon. We all took turns speaking to each person, and by the end of the exercise we all had tears in our eyes! What an experience! Perhaps these boys had not heard such words before. Or hearing them in this way made it such a moving experience.

And so, they ended the weekend with good memories and promised to return.

Bruce Lee said, “Change the way you speak about yourself and you change your life. What you’re not changing, you are choosing.”

Claim it!

Many people sit and wait or hope for what they want.

When it doesn’t happen, they blame, fight, feel sorry for themselves, get bitter and/or give up.

Yo. This is your life. It’s up to you.

Ain’t nobody gonna just show up and give you what you need or want because they don’t even know what it is, and besides, they are too busy thinking about themselves.

Take responsibility.

Respect? Opportunity? Standing? Knowledge? The right attention?

Whatever else –

Move your body and use your voice like you are it.

Claim it!

You need a million $ character first before you have a million $

We have all heard the stories about lottery winners who get a bunch of money.  They squander the money or it makes a mess of them.

The problem is they didn’t earn the money.  They aren’t the kind of people who know its value and what to do with it. Soon enough, they are broke again.  

You need the character and knowledge (among other things) to win.  

From the inner, comes the outer.  

Never the other way around.

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The Purpose of a Goal

The purpose of a goal is not to get it, but to become the kind of person who deserves it.

The difference between a person who earned a million dollars and a person who won a million dollars in the lottery is vast.

In no time, the person who won the money will spend it foolishly and be broke again. 

The person who earned it will keep it and earn more.  Should it all be taken from them, they will earn it again. It’s the kind of person they are.

So strive to become the kind of person who accomplishes what you want to accomplish, do the work, and your goal will come to you.

What kind of person do you want to be?