Afraid of change?

“People are usually afraid of change because they fear the unknown.  But the single greatest constant of history is that everything changes.” – Yuval Noah Harari.

Protectionist laws and regulations.  NIMBY.  Incumbents.  Rejecting difference.  Your fears of going backward.  You.  The system.  Habits.  

There is a lot of resistance to change out there and it is baked into our society because we inherently fear it.

Be smart, but don’t let it hold you back from something wonderful and good.

Change is how we got here, and how we will get to someplace even better.

Three ways to learn something

1) School of Hard Knocks – Expensive.  Takes a long time.  Hurts.

2) Through the experience of others – Cheaper.  Faster.  Easier.

3) By teaching and sharing with other people – You get clarity and deeper understanding when you have to organize it and communicate it to others.

What is one skill you must learn extremely well to take you to the top?…to where you want to go?

HOW are you learning it? 

1, 2, or 3? 

2 and 3? 

The person nobody sees

You build your character during the moments nobody will ever see – and it holds up your identity.

Private standards eventually become public results. 

Keeping small promises to yourself strengthens you for larger accomplishments.

When it’s go time, the person that people see is the flowering of the person they don’t.

Notice things that are important to others

Some people value this, and some value that.

When you notice what matters to people and acknowledge it, provide it, or ask them about it, you are speaking their language.

They will like talking to you about that and look forward to seeing you again.

Take an interest.

Make it hard to do bad things, and easy to do good things.

Set up your environment so it is hard to do bad things.  

It’s hard to eat bad food if it is not in the house.  It is hard to spend time on social media if you delete the apps.  It is hard to wear clothes that don’t look good on you if you get rid of them.  It is hard to be on a screen at night if you don’t bring them into the bedroom.

Set up your environment so it is easy to do good things.

It’s easy to workout in the morning if you lay your workout clothes out on the floor and have your workout plan written down.  It is easy to eat well if there is good food in the house.  It is easy to read good stuff when it’s the only thing on your nightstand.  It’s easy to monitor your weight if the scale is front and center in your bathroom.  It’s easy to call people you love when you set reminders.  

Preparation outperforms willpower.

Set up your environment for the person you want to be.