There are years that ask questions, and years that answer.
What will come to us from the outer world? Will it be wet, or dry? Will the economy be better or worse? Who will come into our life, and who will leave it?
We must expect undulations in the fabric, and control our inner world, come what may.
Amen
Bring it on!
Always enjoy your Think Daily. Found this one on the internet (Mormon Tabernacle Choir broadcast) and thought it would apply to many of the things you talk about…
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This Week’s Broadcast
March 5, 2017 | Broadcast Number 4564
Grit
Why is it that the most successful people are not always the most gifted or talented? So often, exceptional students, accomplished writers, and championship athletes acknowledge that it isn’t natural ability that sets them apart from their peers—it’s their grit. And what is grit? One researcher defines it as “a combination of passion and perseverance in the pursuit of a long-term goal.”1 She offers a few examples: a cartoonist who submitted some 2,000 drawings to the New Yorker magazine before one was finally accepted; a below-average high school English student who became a best-selling novelist; a Super-Bowl quarterback who, after a disappointing first semester in college, wanted to quit and come home, but his strong but loving father told him, “You can quit…But you can’t come home because I’m not going to live with a quitter.”2
According to this research, grit is a better predictor of success than innate ability—and ability does not make a person more likely to have grit. In fact, the research found that the higher a student’s test scores, the less gritty the student tended to be.3 As any teacher or parent can tell you, the child who has to work harder usually gets further ahead in the long run.
And that’s good news for all of us, because while innate ability can’t generally be taught or acquired, grit can. No matter what we have achieved or have not achieved in the past, we can start where we are right now and do something that makes us stretch. Whether it’s learning a new language, developing a hobby, eating a little healthier, or reaching out in friendliness to others—whatever it is, if we keep at it, then it can help us develop grit. In time, what at first seemed so challenging becomes easier. That’s the blessing of doing hard things.
So ask yourself, “What am I passionate about?” Then pursue it with perseverance. Stay with it and keep trying. Don’t worry if you aren’t the best or brightest, because it’s your grit, more than your talent, that will carry you through to success.
1. Angela Duckworth, in Emily Esfahani Smith, “The Virtue of Hard Things,” Wall Street Journal, May 3, 2016, wsj.com/articles/the-virtue-of-hard-things-1462313591.
2. In Smith, “Hard Things.”
3. See Smith, “Hard Things.”
Sometimes the inevitable is hard to swallow. Even though we are born alone parting from or loosing loved ones, family, friends is a sucker that offers no joy just a choice of acceptance and sometimes sorrow. As much as I need alone time to recharge as much it feels good to be accepted, understood and to be part of a team. Pleasure can be substituted but friendship can not.
A pair of trusted physical therapist hands have the power to bring the peace of heaven down to earth and make one feel reborn. It is the most relaxing way of pleasure I can think of born at a cellular level. I wish schools would require kids to learn massage techniques because every person and couple on this earth can only benefit from it.