How good of a parent you are depends on how your kids turn out.
This is not necessarily related to how good of a parent you wanted to be or how much effort you put in.
You can try really hard to be a great parent but raise kids who are not very strong, resilient, confident or whatever else.
Parenting is a skill like any other, and not automatically known because you have a child.
It can be learned. Study up!
My Priest told me many years ago, when I was raising my two boys…”It’s not how your children behave in your home, it is how they behave outside of your home.”
Grateful for God, Family, & health
really