Our self-image, our concept of who we are, determines who we become. If I believe I am this kind of person, and that’s who I will always be, I will find myself dressing, talking, acting and putting myself on a trajectory to stay or become the person I believe I am or will be.
How can I become a person I don’t believe I am? I can’t.
You have to see yourself as the person you want to be – and believe it.
This, of all, is the most powerful, surest way to change your life. From the inner, the outer.
Well written LJ
Wow! Thinking about people in my past saying “who do you think you are”! What they were saying is “don’t try to be different…you must be like us” (average) Crazy!
Thank you for these email’s they are very helpful, I never get to that place where I feel I have arrived.. Constant change and working on improvement. Thanks for the perspective.
If it ain’t from the “inner” the “outer” will only be a bad acting performance that will eventually deteriorate. Like trying to hold a beach ball under water. It eventually comes to the surface.