We are happy to the degree we are in control of our lives and the sequence of things that happen to us – an “internal locus of control”.
We are not happy to the degree we feel we are not in control of our lives – when we feel others or external circumstances are in control – an “external locus of control”.
How do you feel about your life – are you in control?
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Little by little I am taking full control!!
I have and had control over many choices but that control didn’t always bring me to where I thought it would. A lot of times the uncontrollable was what forced me to change and adapt. These changes and adaptations even if extremely tough of painful at the time were always to my advantage because they brought me closer to my limits and the person and life style that served me best at any given moment.